What to Do When You Get Hit HARD in Sparring

by Lisa Creech Bledsoe · 18 comments

in Boxing

Most of the time in boxing sparring, you’re not working with your full power, because if you were, you’d have a pretty short shelf life. Save that shit for the fight, you know?

But because nearly everyone spars with people waaay outside their weight category, you’re likely to get hit really hard now and then. The kind of hit that makes your head buzz and your ears ring. I’m not talking about a knockout punch, but close.

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When nearly all my sparring partners were heavyweights, I used to get my bell rung about once a month. Lately it’s a fairly rare occurrence, mostly because I’m in with people closer to my weight, and also because I’m less slow on defense than I used to be. If you’re new, you’re just gonna get tagged on a regular basis; there’s no getting around it. (Don’t worry, you don’t stay new forever.)

Recently I was working with one of my favorite sparring partners; we’re within 5 pounds of each other and very comfortable in the ring together. Our strength is well-matched, and we know how to draw out each other’s best work. We tear shit up, man, and it is awesome. When you’re in there with someone you know you’re safe to work your ass of with, sometimes your power builds and builds and you feel good letting loose some badass shots.

We were there.

Unfortunately, I was also consistently dropping my right. Which meant she was amping up her left hook in order to take smart advantage of my lapse. She scored several hits that I should never have allowed, then BANG. I got rocked, pure and simple. Not a knockout shot, but a clean, clear, hard power shot to the chin that put a sweet stop to my game for a moment.

“I need a second,” I told her immediately, and we both dropped gloves and I walked it off. And you can bet your sweet ass that my coach didn’t even have to mention that sloppy guard of mine because I knew. (He mentioned it anyway. I deserved it.)

Anyway, every boxer experiences it, and you need a few tricks in your toolbox to deal effectively with it. So here you go.

1. DON’T shake your head.

It’s a natural impulse, but it doesn’t help to shake your head to try and clear it. That just sloshes your brains around even more than they already are.

2. Let someone know.

Don’t just stand there and take more hard shots on top of the one you just got. It’s totally, completely, absolutely ordinary in everyday sparring to say, Hang on, I need to recover. It doesn’t mean you’re pussy, it doesn’t mean you are quitting, it just means you’re not a dumbass.

If you got tagged because someone’s going off on you, then you make double sure you tell them to pull the heat. The unwritten rule in sparring is that you match the power of the person you’re working with, unless you agree differently.

3. Be calm.

You box; this is normal. It’s not something you want to have happen all the time, but there’s no need to get excited — or angry and upset. I see guys (especially) get incidentally rocked and then fire off a series of punishing bombs, which just escalates the situation and often turns an otherwise normal sparring match into an ugly, messy, pointless brawl. There’s not much to be learned from that kind of slop, but some coaches (including mine) do allow it so that “the boys” can burn off some stupid.

I’m pretty sure it’s a guy thing, hah.

4. Keep moving.

For the most part, you want to walk it off. Keep everything moving, operating, and in motion until your neurons start firing normally again.

5. Take a drink of water.

When this happened to me recently my coach had me roll out and hang out ringside (it was somewhat a punishment for the sloppy guard, I think) while my sparring parter finished the round with someone else. My coach instructed me to get a drink and cool off for a round. It’s annoying to have to do this, but finding your water bottle and getting some liquid in you gives you something else to focus on. Dammit.

6. Fix what went wrong.

In this particular case, I knew what I’d done, and I was already pissed at myself for letting my right drop like that. If you don’t know exactly why your bell got rung, your coach will clarify, and you should immediately start thinking about patching up the hole in your form. Which leads me to…

7. Get back in. ASAP.

You don’t want to end your sparring session on a rough note like that if you can help it. Get back in with someone you trust and concentrate on fixing the problem you had in the first place. In my case, my sparring partner and I laughed a little at how few rights I was throwing when I got back in. My right was practically duct-taped high and tight to my headgear. I wasn’t letting that hand down for ANYthing, not so soon after getting rocked.

If all you do is work on protecting yourself, good for you. Everyone needs to work some defense-only rounds now and then. If you feel up to raising the power again, let your sparring partner know and go for it. But no matter what, get back in.

8. Know when to stop.

I just did one more sparring round after my bell-ringer. I’d already had a good workout and that was all I needed to finish on a positive note. But sometimes you get hit really hard and need to roll out and not spar at all for a day or three. (I don’t recommend hard sparring more than once or twice a week, anyway.)

Pay attention to your body and do what it tells you. Get rest and take aspirin when you need to, because if you don’t pay attention, you run the risk of getting injured and really taking yourself out of the game you love.

9. A note on “faking it.”

For me, none of the above applies if you’re talking about an actual fight. I mean, except being calm and fixing the problem.

My first trainer Bonnie is famous for her incredibly tight guard. NObody gets through that guard, boys and girls. She’s never been knocked out, or even stopped. But she came close, once…

She used to tell me the story of how she got tagged so hard during one of her fights that her vision blacked out. She stayed on her feet, though, and worked like a fiend to not give ANY indication of her status. She was flat not going to a) allow a ref to step in and possibly stop the fight, or b) give her opponent any reason to come barreling in for the kill.

And she pulled it off. And every time I got seriously rocked during our sparring sessions, she would remind me to not show it in a fight if at all possible. To keep boxing, to keep working to the very best of my ability. To fake it, hard, until I was back in the swing.

Ever been rocked?

Got a story to share? Leave me a comment and let me know how you handled a hard-ass punch. Tell us your pointers for taking a bad one, and not letting it hold you down.

Stay strong, fighter.

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Heather S. January 11, 2013 at 6:21 pm

Hiya! THANKS for this one. you are speaking to me today!! :-)

I had a *great* sparring session on Wednesday eve … and it left my nose bruised. My first “war wound”.

I learned *so much*, felt totally safe sparring with her, and it was a killer experience. -And yes, I got my bell rung. It was because, well, she is amazing … and my defense is still building. I’m still learning. The good news: my defense was WAY BETTER this sparring session than my last. Progress! that’s what I try to watch for.

My poor trainer was more concerned on some level than I was but then again, after that he and I had such great fodder and very specific defensive things to work on that it was AWESOME!

I know this: Getting hit a bit more now and learning my defense *now* means I get hit less later and enjoy boxing even more as time goes by.

Thanks for this “uplifter”.
:-)

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Lisa Creech Bledsoe January 11, 2013 at 6:30 pm

Hi, Heather — so glad to hear your defense is improving. And you bring up yet another great benefit of sparring sessions: you come out with lots more stuff to work on. You never get THAT from a boring-ass heavy bag workout. Rock on.

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Erin January 11, 2013 at 6:52 pm

Yes, oh man. I remember sparring with this girl – we’d sparred before and I guess I was hitting pretty hard so this time she asked me to take it easy on the punches. So I pulled it back and then she went and kicked me in the head. I was pretty pissed. I don’t spar with her anymore.

Or the time I got an unexpected kick in the ribs. Phew. I had to stop and force myself not to cry. It wasn’t the pain so much as the surprise. I was like, “Deep breathes. Man up. Do NOT cry.”
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Laura January 11, 2013 at 7:57 pm

Great advice! #3 especially (for me). Ain’t ‘cha glad that didn’t happen during your fight?!
As my sainted Antone would say to any whimpering, “This isn’t flower picking class”. (I managed to keep a straight face for that one.)

Wow, if my vision blacked out I don’t think I’d have the fortitude to act like everything is hunky dory. That’s tough.

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Nat January 15, 2013 at 2:12 am

Hey Laura! Mine said “This ain’t tennis!” They really got a way with words those boxing coaches…

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Lisa Creech Bledsoe January 12, 2013 at 10:16 am

@ Erin — It sucks to be taken advantage of, no lie. (Is kicking in the head allowed in your fight sport? I’m such a weenie.) I’ve been “shocked” by a punch a few times — for me that’s usually those shots to the diaphram where all the oxygen has suddenly been magically extracted from the room. Ugh!

@ Laura — “This isn’t flower picking class.” PRICELESS!

For me I think the hardest one is #1; for some reason I am *convinced* that shaking my head is going to solve the problem. Wrong, every time. (Clearly I’m a slow learner.)

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Erin January 14, 2013 at 7:02 pm

Lisa, I do Muay Thai, and kicking the head is allowed in fights. But generally in sparring you don’t kick the head or use elbows.
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Lisa Creech Bledsoe January 14, 2013 at 8:55 pm

Oh! Well, that clears up one of the many mysteries of Muay Thai for me, thanks for that, Erin. (Also, I enjoyed your “warm” post… :) )

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Zoe January 12, 2013 at 1:12 pm

Thanks for this post, Lisa, especially the ‘don’t shake your head’ part! I’m with you, it seems like a natural reaction. I would also add that if you think you may have a serious injury, you should stop. I took a shot to the body which turned out to have cracked a rib, and I’m glad that I didn’t try to “get back on the horse” right away. I think you can usually tell when that’s the case though!

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Lisa Creech Bledsoe January 12, 2013 at 1:37 pm

Oh, yeah, I did the busted rib, too. http://www.theglowingedge.com/broken-rib-bad-words/

Sucked big time and took forever to heal. And Yep! I was a new boxer, I took the hit, and I knew it pretty quick. :( Gr. No fun to be the FNG, huh?

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Nat January 15, 2013 at 2:10 am

Lisa, thank you so so much for this! It was such a relief to hear you say that if you’re new, which as you know I am, you’re just going to take some hard hits sometimes as I did last week from a much more advanced sparring partner. It just really helps to know that that’s normal, and that it doesn’t mean it will be like that forever. And now, thanks to your numbers 2, 5, and 6, I definitely know that I have the wrong coach. I already had my suspicions… What did I do when MY bell got rung twice in one round? I shook my head (!!) and just kept going, which is bad, I know, but my coach told me to (This ain’t tennis, he said). However, there is a silver lining, now I know I can take a hard punch and survive and keep fighting, and if I can do that, I can do a hell of a lot! Also, even though, my partner was SO much more advance and well, definitely better than me, I stayed in with her for 3 rounds. Silver linings all over the place. Thanks, woman! You’re my hero, as usual.

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Lisa Creech Bledsoe January 15, 2013 at 8:48 am

Yay for silver linings!

And a couple of notes: First, it’s *sometimes* hard for a coach who is watching to know the difference between you getting hit normally, and you getting your bell rung. The boxer has to make sure she can communicate it not only to her sparring partner, but also to her coach. That said, you want a coach who can support you in the best possible way. That’s worth a private conversation sometime (so that you can explain exactly what you need from him), if you want to try and salvage the relationship. It’s even worth a private relationship with your sparring partner (so that you can ask her to meet you where you are).

Boxing can be freaking hard, but there really are paths forward for anyone who is willing to find them.

Keep rolling Nat, you badass!

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Nat January 15, 2013 at 8:20 pm

Oh, he knew, Lisa. He knew by the way I stopped for a split second and shook my head and the expression on my face and because the others that were watching suddenly paid really close attention and everyone fell silent for a second. You know that thing that hangs in the air when people are seriously going at it in a boxing gym? Yeah, that was happening. It was only my second time sparring. He shoulda known better than to put me in with her. In fact, he told her to let up in the second round. I knew in my gut I shouldn’t have gone in with her, and I wanted to say something before we started, but I didn’t because you know, I thought: he’s my coach, I can trust him. But, like I said, I learned some shit. For this and other serious reasons, he’s no longer my coach. Long story. Ugh. Time to find a new coach.

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Lisa Creech Bledsoe January 16, 2013 at 9:36 am

Ugh, sorry, Nat. Sounds like there’s more to it than just this incident. Hang in there. Getting up the curve in boxing is worth it, and the lessons in self-care are part of that. I’m glad you’re not letting anyone stop you.

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Jackie February 12, 2013 at 1:30 pm

I had my first real ‘moment of pain’ a few days ago. I was sparring one of the guys at my gym who is about 5’8 and probably has 70 lbs on me. I was coming in with an overhand right and pretty much slammed myself into his jab that landed right on my solar plexus. Needless to say I couldn’t breath for a minute and I think made an audible gasp of ‘oh sh*t!’. We did finish the round though, but I will say it was hard to keep calm after and not try to furiously get back at him.

By the way… I have my first match coming up next month!! Well, it’s actually more of an exhibition and won’t go on my amateur record, but it’s a start!!

Thank you again for the awesome posts! :)

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Lisa Creech Bledsoe February 13, 2013 at 6:12 pm

JACKIE! — Your first match!!!! It’s gonna be awesome. Can’t wait to hear Every. Last. Detail.

Email me, if you’re willing: lisa@theglowingedge.com

Oh, and sorry about your recent oxygen shortage, heh. Happens to all of us at one time or another, esp when we’re in with those heavier peeps.

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Gabby April 7, 2013 at 5:26 pm

Lisa, I just had my 3rd sparring session today and man did it rock me. We introduced the right hand in and I sparred with a different girl today too (shorter and more heavy set than me). I think I was doing fine but I got backed into the corner for the first time and it freaked me out to no end. I looked away for a but and she gave a mean right hook, I immediately started to tear up. I couldn’t help it, from shock and anger mostly. SO embarrassing but my trainer and everyone at the gym was super supportive and told me what to do next time if I’m in that situation. I went another round after that though which helped calm me down a bit. I definitely still feel it though!

Love your blog by the way!

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Lisa Creech Bledsoe April 8, 2013 at 8:06 am

Hi, Gabby — Big congrats on making it past that hook. You never want to let that shit stop you; gotta get back in and finish on a better note. And it sounds like you did exactly that, so you ROCK. Btw, if she was heavier than you, that’s part of why the shot hurt more. The more weight someone has to put behind a punch, the more power it has. So you took a hard one and kept going — that’s something to be proud of. And now you know how to pivot out of the corner, I’m guessing. So you learned stuff all the way around. Good for you!

Thanks for the blog love; I love writing it, so I’m glad you’re getting something out of it! :)

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